Monthly Archives: May 2011
The Art of Eating
I am very particular about the way I eat. Come to think about it, I am particular about many things. As I’m sure my boyfriend would tell you. Though, in my defense, growing up with four siblings has meant that … Continue reading
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I Wish I Was Perfect
Today one of my clients said something along the lines of “it stinks that I can’t be perfect at everything.” I was thinking it really does stink, I hate that I can’t be perfect all the time. Truth is, though … Continue reading
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BOUNDARIES take III
The Law of Power: You only have the power to change yourself. You can’t change another person. This is a big whammy in counseling…it’s one of the ideas you hope every person will own for his or her self. oh, … Continue reading
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Top 10 Reasons Job Searching Sucks
1- It’s full of catch 22′s: they won’t hire you until you get experience, but you can’t get experience until they hire you; they want you to move before they hire you, you can’t afford to move until you have … Continue reading
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BOUNDARIES take II
This little excerpt from the chapter on Common Boundary Myths is a good one to keep in mind for any relationship: “We can’t manipulate people into swallowing our boundaries by sugarcoating them. Boundaries are a ‘litmus test’ for the quality … Continue reading
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Of Dreams and Disillusionment
Disenchantment, whether it is a minor disappointment or a major shock, is the signal that things are moving into transition in our lives. -William Throsby Bridges So it’s spring again, which means graduation. Graduation brings back memories of school- high … Continue reading
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Ode to Clients
Some days I just really appreciate my clients. Like the days when I’m feeling pretty worthless and they make a statement like, “I’m so glad that I get to come in and see you today.” Or when they take some … Continue reading
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